C' est La Vie
Capture Da Moment .. Seize Da Opportunity .. Live It FuLL ..
Friday, August 21, 2015
Friday, May 22, 2015
The Giver
The greatest love of all.. is one that is unconditional and forgiving.
There cannot be a perfect balance in a relationship; you usually have one who gives in a lot to the other.
More often than not, the giver ends up in hurt. More often than not, the giver deserves better.
Selfless and defenceless, the giver is one that cries in silence. The giver should and will learn to be stronger and independent.
Time will mould the giver to be a polished gem and a great partner for one who appreciates.
Tuesday, October 21, 2014
Far but not anywhere near
Being away from home allowed me to pursue my dream once more; by living in a different world that I have been my whole life.
I'd like to think that by living the dream, happiness can follow. However, often are we caught in situations that restricted us from being happy despite having the freedom to roam.
As for now, I shall keep my fingers crossed that as my adventure goes along, I can find inner peace and be truly free and happy.
Sunday, May 25, 2014
Emptying What's Lost
Saturday, February 08, 2014
Exposure
Tuesday, January 07, 2014
Perspectives
On the contrary, everything became clearer when we take a step back. Alas, taking a step back meant that we are not near.
Most things are only as beautiful when they are cherished. Never take for granted, for you never know when they are gone.
Monday, December 16, 2013
Looking Back
And so he did, for the next three months, becoming an obvious wanderlust just so his thirst to experience the beauty of this world can be quenched.
Not for long. He made bad decisions and got into a lot of trouble, and eventually threw his relationship into jeopardy. Finally in October, he decided that letting go would be best for the person that loved him dearly all these years. Moving on would be the right decision, and so he thought.
Looking back, perhaps everything that happened, were meant to be. He can only move on and remember that this is the year that changed his life, for good.
Sometimes, when you are caught in a dilemma not knowing what to do, think.. why you allowed yourself to fall into that situation in the first place.
Monday, September 23, 2013
To Love, to Let Go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go
And I let her go.
Sunday, September 15, 2013
2013 Plus Nine Months
Me, on the other hand, am just chasing time Lost, trying to Live as fuLL a Life as I couLd. After a short traveL of cLose to 3 months to New ZeaLand, a part of massive China and cutting through South East Asia crossing borders, it suddenLy dawned upon me that.. this is Life.
Wednesday, February 01, 2012
The FinaL Lap to a Chapter
2011. A year of the past. Nothing more than memories. A LargeLy tedious year with Lots of commitments to work and studies on one hand, sweet moments, too, on the other!
A finaL sprint to the end of another chapter promises a fresh new beginning in the Life of the owner.. a moment that's been a Long time coming. TiL then, enjoy Living Life as it shouLd!
In Love, we trust. In Love, sometimes we hurt. But in Love, we find the invisibLe wings that have been the pivot of support through aLL times.
That is why, I cherish You.. thank you, for being everything that I wasn't. For aLL that you gave, you deserve my dedication to our very future! =)
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
Dream A LittLe
Now, as we aLL grow oLder, we tend to forget what Life is about.. to Laugh, and to Live and Love aLL the stuff we Loved doing.
I didn't forget.. but Like everyone eLse, with commitments apLenty.. choice is niL.
Sunday, September 04, 2011
Wednesday, April 13, 2011
They say this is what I have to do, and so here I am, trying to get the books into my head. Eight months have Lapsed since I embarked on further education, but somehow, I stiLL detest the process. Is this what I want to do? Or what I have to do?
As a simpLe man, my Life was happy .. I get to save money, I get to traveL, I get to meet peopLe. Why, in the first pLace, do I change this? If I couLd turn everything back again, I wouLd have stayed. That said, the past one year since the change effected has not been wasted. Good peopLe in the new workpLace, nice cLassmates, a very supportive girLfriend and foLks.
SeriousLy aLL ingredients are in for me to pursue that paper everyone thinks is a necessity as much as I beg to differ. Let me try, but I stiLL yearn for my freedom to roam.
Life's simpLy too short to waste.
Sunday, February 27, 2011
Sunday, February 13, 2011
And so we aLways hear, that what matters is not the destination but the journey that brings us to it. WeLL, this can onLy be true.
We are aLL doing what we beLieve is for a better tomorrow .. that paper, cLimbing thae corporate Ladder, saving up for marriage, housing, buiLd a famiLy, retirement and the List goes on. No, we wiLL not know when and where the finaL destination wiLL be, but everyone keeps moving aLong.
Of course, just Like what we study in the marketing cLasses of the Product Life cycLe - Introduction, Growth, Maturity, DecLine .. Life has its own cycLe as weLL - Birth, Age, Sickness, Death. Everything that has a beginning, has an end, though, it might just sound pessimistic to some. However, if you have Learnt to accept reaLity, Life wiLL very much be easier, and probabLy happier.
Our journeys in Life are aLL unique, and very much infLuenced by the existence of every other thing eLse. Anyone that appears in your Life, pLays a roLe in shaping your future, aLthough the impact might not be there to be seen. I am happy, aLL the time, whenever I think of the peopLe around me that answers my hierachy of needs, the most important, being my mother, of whom, as my Life moves on, the roLe wiLL be passed on to that SpeciaL someone.
I cant thank destiny and Cupid more than enough, for shooting the arrow of Love right into me, onto DeL .. She is simpLy one word to describe - unique. ObviousLy, Love is bLind and peopLe in Love choose to onLy see the good things, but isnt that better? We shouLd aLways try to see things in the positive Light, for nothing is perfect.
On the eve of VaLentine's, as I am writing this, my girLfriend is working her sLeeves off since a month ago for this heartLands Chingay event. I hope, everything goes weLL for her and she deserves a good break thereafter.
On another personaL note, gratitude is something which I feLt Lacking in the urban LifestyLe as ours. We are taking the good for granted, and often, onLy focusing on what goes wrong. It shouLdnt be. This cuLture has to change.
As the Chinese ceLebrates Lunar New Year, Let us hope the rabbit year wiLL be bountifuL for aLL. I wish you aLL the best, and as Singapore's very own "Mother Theresa" said at the Chingay which I was present Last night, "Love ALL" .. and Love we shouLd, beginning with the peopLe that matters most.
Thursday, January 13, 2011
As I age, I bLog Less. With time, the emergence of the many sociaL mediums such as Facebook and Twitter, coupLed with the voLatiLity of the current worLd where aLmost everything changes every singLe day, bLogging sure has taken a step back.
The good thing is I have not given it up.. at Least, the commitment of one post per month is certain. The sad thing is, its reaLLy difficuLt to spare time, sit down, reLax and manage my thoughts to put down in this space. SureLy, renown bLoggers can onLy be femaLes as we cannot deny the fact that sex does seLL.
As usuaL, many things have come fast and furious .. I have gone for my knee op which went pretty smooth, but have to keep my fingers crossed that I can get back to soccer once again as no one knows if it wiLL heaL normaLLy.
Back to schooL now for a brand new semester, hopefuLLy time can be better managed now that I am taking onLy two moduLes, and that work can cut me some sLack. Otherwise changes have to come in pLace for a baLance.
Right now though, for myseLf, the new year can be said to be unpredictabLe. But personaL goaLs have been set aside; studies .. voLunteering at the Community CLub .. my reLationship with DeL .. going back to footbaLL .. getting a big fat bonus in JuLy, and hopefuLLy by the end it, I can Look back and say, this has been a pretty good year afteraLL!
Have a great year ahead, peopLe.
Saturday, December 25, 2010
This date is not simpLy a date with Santa CLaus and his seven reindeers, but another magicaL ceLebration of one vitaL aspect of Life - L.O.V.E.
UnknowningLy, I have been together with this speciaL girL for seven months aLready. As we aLways put it, the amount of time does not necessary depict the deepness of how two person feeL for each other. SadLy not aLL reLationships end in a fairytaLe .. an oLd friend just ended one of seven years due to infLuence from the externaL environment.
For me though, for as far as we both can, I'm sure we can keep it going strong and sweet.
For the rest of you out there though, have a merry Xmas and may the presents come Loading up and get your Boxing Day busy!
Seasons greetings, one and aLL.
Tuesday, November 30, 2010
FinaLLy a breather from aLL the studies for a whiLe, I wouLd think that going into the best month of the year wiLL definiteLy bring about more joy than ever!
Its been Long since I can reaLLy take time to sit down and organise thoughts. It used be so damn easy, but then, Life cannot aLways be at the same stage and we aLways move on.
I wish I couLd share the many good things that have happened now, however, time does not permit as its time to hit the sack and say good night.
Stay tuned for more updates!
Sunday, November 07, 2010
Today. It was drizzLing, a LittLe heavy, but Less than a shower. I had just enjoyed my haircut at the neighbourhood saLoon and went home to take a short bath before I head to find my Love who had to work through the Saturday aLone.
In Life, every singLe day is a Learning process. It has been ages since I Last wrote, and write I must, I toLd myseLf as sharing is itseLf a reference for others. But where do I begin, and how do I end? Sometimes, the writing just didnt happen, and that, in the Last few years, has seen the posts in this bLog dwindLe.
I took a smaLL broLLy, enough to cover two heads and Left home. Home, with three occupants Dad, Mum and sis, has pretty much been the same, except for the eLdest son being away for most of the time due to commitments to work, and studies, and buiLding a speciaL reLationship with a speciaL girL. No doubt the fondness of the famiLiarity is very much no different, at this phrase in Life, I can onLy spend that much time at home.
As I waLked through the rain weLL covered by the broLLy, each step I took against the rippLes that hit the ground, I Looked back through the many, many events that have occured over the past few months. I am gLad to be Living Life to my fuLLest, however, I cannot say the same for achievements .. which are but few.
Of course, I am happy with Life, but there are somewhat stiLL Lots of things to do, to see, and to to heLp make the worLd much better than just improving my own Life. I do not need to hide, or create a positive image here for anyone to see, its just whats from the heart.
When opportunities arise, anybody can make someone eLse's Life much better just by doing a LittLe bit more. For exampLe, giving a doLLar to a hunchback eLderLy seLLing tissue packs, and this couLd mean haLf a meaL to her .. but its just another cup of coffee for you and I.
Let us do what we can, if we want, to heLp peopLe who are not as Lucky. For every bit of good you do, you have definiteLy Left a great impact to the person you have heLped.
For myseLf, in time to come when my "chores" are done, or when the chance comes, I wouLd, give back to the worLd what the worLd has given me.
Cheers, and enjoy the finaL months of 2010.