Emptying What's Lost

Through my life, I had only been in 3 proper relationships. To some, this figure might been pretty lean. For a typical guy like me, it sure is. I have read somewhere that people usually only settle down with their 4th or 5th partner, though this assumption might just be subjective.

Four years back, there was this girl I fell for, chased after and made to call my own. On this day, we got together officially and shared the happiness with the many common friends we had. After spending a splendid 3.5 years creating beautiful moments and having one another, little did I know that only upon losing her, I came to realise that I have lost one that truly devoted everything to the one guy she ever loved.

Temptations followed by decisions often lead to separations. There can be no bigger pain than taking for granted what good had always been there and losing it through bad decisions. However, we can only move on and hold onto the hope that everything that happens, happened for a reason. 

Most people will always see the surface of things, but never will they understand the true meaning of one's decision. More importantly, we should learn to be a little less selfish and responsible, and decide what would be best for not just one self but the other party. Sometimes, love was never lost, but moving on is inevitable.

Relationships prove to be a constant learning curve for all humans as emotions are what made us. As I empty the remains of what's lost, I start to fill in with what I have found and will be finding.

Be happy. You deserve to be.